Philosophies to Live By – Part 1

Today we begin a 3 Part series, each one covering a philosophy from across the globe – concepts we can certainly learn from and, if they fit, even choose to live by. I embrace all three and hope that you are inspired by what they offer.

It’s always a good time to celebrate the diversity offered in other world cultures.

Let’s begin with Pamoja, a KiSwahili (widely spoken in Tanzania and Kenya) word, which means together.

Together can be a tricky word. We accept it within the context of who we like or are like; and way too often reject it as we think about those with whom we have some degree of conflict or those who appear to be too far from our norm. It is a choice, like so many other decisions we make on a daily basis.

Pamoja’s “togetherness” is a togetherness of spirit. It is the togetherness that loved ones share as they hold each other gently in their hearts.

I invite you to explore how you can use it to help you move through the holidays, or through personal and work relationships.

Imagine for a moment, that you’re wrapping the most unique looking gift you can think of … choose any packaging, add an exquisite bow and the card says something like:

This gift, however, has nothing tangible in it … the box is empty.

That “emptiness” symbolizes everything that Pamoja means, and your gift is to demonstrate it (for as long as you can stand it ☺). It means you will mindfully and with a full heart fulfill an intention to engage with the gift recipient around one central purpose: togetherness!

OMG you’re thinking … “Mozella, it’s so much easier to pick up a gift from Target (or maybe even Amazon?!)”

But in many cultures around the world, the concept of ‘togetherness’ is a critical part of showing and living in respect for one another. What greater gift than to honor not only who a person is, but also the value and/or lessons they bring to the relationships.

Try it! Wishing you lots of pamoja, now and forever!